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A Newsletter for Parents of Preschoolers
Published 6 times a
year.
Columbia Public Schools Parents As Teachers
555 Vandiver Dr. Columbia, MO 65202-1508
Belinda Masters, Coordinator (573) 214-3955
| Dear
Parents ... As February approaches we are drawn to thinking
about the Valentines in our lives. This issue of the newsletter shares
information about expressions of love and ‘loveys’. One of the greatest
gifts of love we can give our children is the comfort of routines. Young
children have difficulty understanding the concept of time. But when
parents develop predictable routines in the morning, at bedtime or
during other times of the day, children find comfort in knowing what to
expect next. Karen Hickman, a local Loving Guidance Associate, says that
“Our brains are pattern-seeking devices, the clearer the patterns
(routines) are for young children, the better for brain development.
Routines add predictability and consistency to a child’s day.”
Hearing & Vision Screenings for ages 6 months to 5 years (pre-Kdg) Wed., Feb. 22, 8:30 - 10:30
am* PAT office, 555 Vandiver. |
in what she calls “I love you rituals” a
child’s brain development is enhanced and attachment between parent and
child grows stronger, which can ultimately lead to fewer conflicts. She
has developed the book, I Love You Rituals, that is filled with nursery
rhymes and songs that parents and children can engage in together. Feel
free to check out this book and others at the PAT Resource Center. So think about what routines your family may already be doing each day and appreciate what a positive impact they can have on your child’s development. If your family lacks routines, create some predictable rituals that you and your child might enjoy. As bedtime nears, help yourself and your child unwind with a soothing bath by candlelight, gently brushing those pearly whites, singing a special song and reading a favorite book. Loving routines make wonderful memories! Belinda
Masters, Coordinator
Parents & Infants to 12 mon.
Monday, February 6 ... Choosing a Safe Sitter Monday, March 6... Setting
Limits Monday, April 3 ... Music & Fingerplays |
Jump into a Book Books & early literacy activities for infants to 36 months. Saturday, Feb. 11 Severe weather date: Sat. Feb. 25 Kids Cuisine for 3 to 5 year olds
Kids in the Kitchen for infants to 36 months Monday, March 20
Tons of Trucks! Thursday, April 6 Rainbow Softball Complex |
February is Dental Health Month
| February
brings us Dental Health Month. This is a great time for parents to talk
about good oral hygiene with their young children. A child’s first teeth, often called “baby teeth,” are just as important as their permanent adult teeth because they help children speak and chew. The also hold space in the jaw for permanent teeth that are developing beneath the gums. The American Dental Association recommends that a dentist examine a child’s mouth within six months of the eruption of the first tooth and no later than the first birthday. A dental visit at an early age makes good sense because it not only works as a “well baby checkup” but also allows a child to
Visit the American Dental Association’s website and access a very
special interactive story. Go to:
www.ada.org/public/games/index.asp and
click on Visit the Dentist with Marty, and then follow directions. This
piece features sound effects and interactive rollovers and is sure to
delight kids. It’s a great way to prepare a child for a dental visit.
Discover foods that are healthy, learn about wearing a mouthguard for
sports, and investigate the things that can be found in a dentist’s
office. Each time you access this story you and your child will discover
something new.
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get used to regular
dental checkups, gives the dentist an opportunity to demonstrate how to
clean teeth properly and answer parent’s questions about such issues as
thumb-sucking which can cause crowded, crooked teeth or bite problems. This early visit to the dentist will help families begin a thorough prevention program because a major concern is Early Childhood Decay (sometimes called “baby bottle or nursing tooth decay”). Dentists urge parents not to allow a baby to sleep with a bottle or to nurse just prior to bedtime and to encourage children to drink from a cup as they near their first birthday.
Creative Snacks on a Budget Snacks are important ‘mini-meals’ to help ensure children get the nutrients and calories they need each day. You & your child can have fun together making these snacks while keeping costs down. Some of the following should not be served to children under age 1 because they pose choking hazards (nuts, seeds, nut butters, grapes, meat chunks, raw carrots).
FRUITS & VEGETABLES
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The American Academy of Pediatric
Dentists recommends that parents begin cleaning children’s teeth as soon
as possible. Starting at birth, parents can clean a child’s gums with a
very soft, infant toothbrush and warm water. Always help young children
brush their emerging teeth because little ones do not have the dexterity
to brush on the own. And remember “easy does it” because from about six
months to three years, children may have sore gums due to teething. The earlier parents are aware of good dental health, the better the chance of preventing dental problems. Children with clean, healthy teeth chew food easily, learn to speak clearly, and smile with confidence. Start your children early on a lifetime of good dental habits.
tomatoes, grated carrots), and salad dressing. Just a few shakes of
the bag tosses the salad.
Grains and Breads
Source: Asso. for Child Development as printed in The Well-Centered Child, DEC 2005 |
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10 ways to show love for your child From the American Academy of Pediatrics 1. Before your child is born,
stay away from drugs, alcohol and tobacco.
*Please note that Parents As Teachers is required to record dates of immunizations for all children participating in our program, as part of the health screening. Your Parent Educator will let you know when she needs to gather this information...usually once a year. Thank you.
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Sample these books The Disappearing Alphabet by
Richard Wilbur.
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Infant Information
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Infant Brain Development The Growing Brain
Nurturing Brain Development
Source: MO Assn. of Family & Consumer Sciences, Joyce Taylor, Executive Director
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Dressing baby: A time for learning Putting on a jacket to go outdoors
or taking off shoes for nap may appear to be ordinary chores in
caring for infants and toddlers. But all dressing activities
offer rich opportunities for learning. Here are some ideas.
TEXAS CHILD CARE,
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Toddler Time
Life with Lovey
Has you 1-year-old started dragging around a favorite blanket or stuffed animal? There's a reason toddlers crave comfort objects.
| About 60 percent of toddlers are devoted to
comfort objects, according to child-development experts. And since
blankets and stuffed animals can help children soothe themselves in
stressful moments, lots of parents can’t imagine life without them
either. Here’s the scoop on your child’s lovey. Hopelessly devoted to Blankie Although some children embrace a comfort object earlier in infancy, they usually develop more intense attachments after their first birthday. Why? Because this is a time of change for your toddler. Children are just becoming mobile, and they are also learning that they’re independent from their parents. “Separation anxiety takes hold at this age, so something as simple as wandering into another room and realizing she’s alone can be stressful for your child,” says Mary Ann LoFrumento, MD, author of Understanding Your Toddler. “Having a familiar object with them helps kids this age feel comforted and secure.” This feeling of safety is important because toddlers have a hard time with transitions, such as heading to day care or even going to bed. “The lovey becomes an extra resource to help your child deal with everyday events that are frustrating or upsetting,” explains Maria Kalpidou, Ph.D., psychology professor at Assumption College in Worcester, Massachusetts. “It’s especially important when moms aren’t around to hold and console toddlers. Instead, they use a comfort object to soothe themselves.” |
Why do loveys have such magical powers? Quite simply,
they help children control their emotions. “It feels good--and is
calming--for a 1-year-old to stroke a blanket or hug a stuffed animal,”
says Jane Kostelc, a child-development specialist at the Parents As
Teachers National Center in St. Louis. That’s why most children pick
loveys that are soft or have a nice texture. In addition, many toddlers choose comfort objects that are connected to their mother in some way, such as the blankets they were held in as babies. Of course, other children become fond of items that make little sense to anyone but them. “Our toddler became attached to one of his socks,” says Nicole Guillory of Mount Vernon, Washington. “He carries it everywhere and won’t go to sleep without it.” Lovey Lessons While comfort objects can be cute, living with them can also be a pain. Just trying to get out of the house without your child’s lovey can cause a meltdown. “Remember, the world is a scary place to your toddler. That little blanket helps him be brave,” says Kostelc. Still, that doesn’t mean you can’t set limits on its use: Doggy can ride along to the mall but must wait in the car, or Bunny can go to day care but needs to stay in a cubby until naptime. Of course, these rules are more for the benefit of the parents. “It’s healthy toddler behavior to cart a lovey around all day,” says Dr. LoFrumento. “But setting limits will reduce the chances of its getting lost or destroyed,” |
Another battle for many parents is prying a
beloved item out of their child’s hands long enough to wash it. That’s
because kids often like the grungy feel and not-so-fresh aroma their
lovey has developed, and fear its magic will be gone after a trip
through the washing machine. One option is to buy several of the same
item as soon as your child shows a preference. That’s what Dr. Kalpidou
did after her daughter fell in love with a Santa hat the family used as
a decoration. “I stocked up on hats after Christmas and washed them
several times to make sure that they were worn enough to pass for the
original,” she says. Your toddler’s attachment to a comfort object will likely continue for the next year or two; it isn’t until preschool that most kids no longer need them. “At around 3 or 4, your child will begin to regulate his own emotions and won’t need to rely on a lovey for comfort,” says Kostelc. In the meantime, enjoy this milestone for what it is: a small, adorable step in your child’s road to independence. Source: Parents magazine, Sept. 2005
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Preschooler Page
It isn't easy to learn how to share!
| Four-year-old Cathy was inspecting her
crayon collection. Ah, there it was--the ugly gray one with the smashed
point. With a benevolent nod, she handed it to her little brother. “Hey,
Dad,” she shouted. “I’m sharing my new crayons with Jeff.” “Well that’s good. That’s what I like to hear.” Maybe their efforts to teach sharing were beginning to pay off he thought proudly. To adults, sharing seems easy enough. It’s using or enjoying something in common with others, a simple social skill. And one that adults say should be learned as soon as possible by children. But as most parents know, no matter how strongly you might feel about the importance of sharing, it is just not a skill that is learned overnight. It’s a long road to learning how to share, but parents can guide their children along it with these ideas: 1. Explain in simple terms what you want your child to do. Then don’t leave the scene. Help your child do what you have explained. If for example, you want your two-year-old to take turns, describe how it works. And then stay nearby to help |
him or her through the process. The idea of
reciprocity is pretty hard for a two-year-old to grasp. If you tell your
child to give someone else a turn on the slide, make sure she gets her
“turn” back again. 2. Be an example of sharing. Research has shown that children who have seen adults share are more likely to do so themselves--and to continue doing so. Showing is more effective than telling when it comes to sharing. When a child is told to share, he or she will do so--for a while. But when children frequently see adults share, they’re more likely to repeat the behavior on their own and do it more often. 3. Share throughout the day with your child, using the words “share” or “take turns” when you do. Whether it’s a piece of toast or a turn with the vacuum cleaner, you’ll be modeling what you want your child to learn. 4. Whenever you share with your child, be as generous as possible. If your preschool daughter is fascinated by your paper clips, don’t |
dole them out one or two at a time. Give her a whole
pile of them. It’s easier to understand generosity when you’ve
experienced it. 5. Let your children experience ownership, too. You can’t know what it means to share until you know what it means to own something. Avoid forcing them to share their favorite possessions. If, for example, riding on his toy motorcycle means a great deal to your three-year-old, explain to the neighborhood children he doesn’t need to share it with them. It’s easier to be generous with other toys when you know that the important ones are safe. Use these suggestions and your own ideas to help your child grow toward sharing from the heart. And keep in mind that your child’s occasional lapse has more to do with age and understanding than with selfishness. Source: The Well-Centered Child, OCT 2005 |
| Enjoying Valentine’s Day with your Preschooler All
children love to send cards for Valentine’s Day. It’s even more
fun if they make their cards as well. Try this Stained Glass
Valentine Heart: Source: Parent & Preschooler Newsletter, FEB
2006 |
Parent's Place
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Infant Massage Infant Massage classes are offered regularly for P.A.T.
parents & their infants from 3 weeks to 8 months. Three-session daytime class: February 14, 21, & 28 - 10 to 11 AM Please bring lotion and a blanket or pillow for your baby. The guide, Nurturing Touch, ($5.50) is available for purchase. Call 214-3955 to register. Minimum of 5 registrations are needed to hold the class. Maximum number 10 families for day; 12 for evening.
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For Sale:
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size mattress and box springs. Stacy, 823-4711. • The PAT newsletter is published bi-monthly -- 6
times/year.
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Parenting Workshop:
Countdown to Kindergarten
Springtime Fun |
Columbia Public Schools Parents As Teachers Activities, 2005-2006
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DAY |
DATE |
TIME |
AGES |
ACTIVITY |
LOCATION |
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WED |
SEP 7 |
6 to 7:30 pm |
‘walkers’ to 36 months (No activities for infants) |
MESSY NITE for TODDLERS |
Cosmo Park Lamb Shelter Business Loop 70 W. |
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MON |
SEP 12 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
OUTDOOR FUN at the PARK |
Lions Stephens Park N. Williams & Windsor Sts. 2 blocks N of Boone Hospital Center |
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MON |
SEP 19 |
6:30 to 8:30 pm |
Parents only please; no childcare. |
PARENTAL DISCIPLINE: WHAT IS GOOD ENOUGH? |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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WED |
SEP 28 |
5:00 to 6:30 pm |
Infants to 5 years |
BACK TO NATURE |
Oakland Park Shelters 2 & 3 1900 Blue Ridge Rd |
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MON |
OCT 3 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
FEEDING YOUR BABY |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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THUR |
OCT 13 |
5:00 to 6:30 pm |
‘walkers’ to 36 months (No activities for infants) |
AWESOME AUTUMN for TODDLERS |
PAT office parking lot 555 Vandiver |
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MON |
OCT 24 |
6:30 to 7:45 pm |
3 to 5 Years (but not yet in Kindergarten) |
FALL into a BOOK for 3 to 5’s |
Russell Blvd. School 1800 W Rollins Rd. |
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MON |
NOV 7 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
TRAVELING with INFANTS |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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MON |
DEC 5 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
PREPARING for the HOLIDAYS |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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MON |
JAN 9 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
ESTABLISHING SLEEP ROUTINES |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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SAT |
JAN 21 |
9:00 to 10:30 am |
3 to 5 years (pre-K) |
DANCING with the KIDS for 3 to 5’s |
Smithton Middle School Cafetorium |
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MON |
FEB 6 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
CHOOSING A SAFE SITTER |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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SAT |
FEB 11 |
9:30 to 10:45 am |
Infants to Age 3 |
JUMP into a BOOK for Infants & Toddlers |
Smithton Middle School Cafetorium & Room 99 |
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MON |
MAR 6 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
SETTING LIMITS with your INFANT |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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MON |
MAR 13 |
6:30 to 7:45 pm |
3 to 5 years (pre-K) |
KIDS CUISINE for 3 to 5’s (pre-Kindergarten) |
Russell Blvd. School 1800 W Rollins Rd. |
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MON |
MAR 20 |
6:30 to 7:45 pm |
Infants to 36 mon. |
KIDS in the KITCHEN for Infants & Toddlers |
Smithton Middle School Cafetorium & Room 99 |
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MON |
APR 3 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
MUSIC & FINGER PLAYS |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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THUR |
APR __ |
4:00 to 7:00 pm |
‘Walkers’ & up |
TONS of TRUCKS
|
Cosmo Park Rainbow Softball Complex Parking Lot |
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MON |
MAY 1 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
SAFETY PROOFING YOUR HOME |
Columbia Public Library Friends Room |
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MON |
MAY 15 |
5:00 to 6:15 pm…Infants to 36 months 6:30 to 7:45 pm…36 months to 5 (pre-K) |
DOWN on the FARM |
Nifong Park Nifong Bl. & Ponderosa (near Hwy 63 & Rte AC) |
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MON |
JUN 5 |
10:30 to 11:30 am |
Parents & Infants up to 12 months |
OUTDOOR SAFETY |
Lions Stephens Park N. Williams & Windsor Sts. 2 blocks N of BHC |
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MON |
JUN 5 |
6:00 to 7:30 pm |
3 to 5 Years (pre-K) |
MESSY NITE for 3-5’s (pre-Kindergarten) |
Cosmo Park Lamb Shelter Business Loop 70 West |
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